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HONOR & RESPECT

Abbess,
    Christian Orthodox       
Abbot,
    Christian Orthodox        
Accountant        
Acting Official       
Adjutant General     
Admiral, Rear
        

Alderman         
Archbishop, Catholic        
Archbishop,
   Christian Orthodox        
Archdeacon, Episcopal        
Archimandrite        
Architect
Archpriest        
Ambassador to the U.S.
   from a foreign country      
Ambassador of the U.S.        
American Indian Chief        
Assemblyman
   U.S., State / or           

   Assemblywoman            
Associate Justice,
   U.S. Supreme Court          
Associate Justice of a
   State Supreme Court
Attorney
         
Attorney General           
Attorney, U.S.         
Australian Officials    

Baron, Baroness           
British Officials,
   Royalty, Nobility     
Brother, Catholic
         
Brother,
   Christian Orthodox          
Bishop, Catholic            
Bishop,
   Christian Orthodox         
Bishop, Episcopal        
Board Member     
Boy        
Brigadier General       

Canadian Officials    
Candidate    
Captain,
   USA, USAF, USMC     
Cardinal
             
Chairman
    Federal Reserve      
Chaplain in the
    Armed Services        
Chaplain of Congress          

Chargé d’Affaires         
Chief Executive Officer 
Chief Judge          
Chief Justice,
      U.S. Supreme Court 
Chief Justice, of a State
      Supreme Court             

Chief of Police          
Chief of Staff     

Chief Operating
   Officer          
Child
           
City Manager    
Clergy & Religious
    Officials     
Colonel, "Honorary"
     Kentucky, or other
     state/organization      
Colonel, USA, USAF,
    or USMC     
Congressman, U.S.              
Congresswoman, U.S.   
Consul and or
   Consul General              
Commissioner, Court      
Commissioner
       
Corporate Executive         
Councilman
    Councilwoman      
Counselor (Diplomat)      
Countess     
Couples     
Curator        

Dalai Lama          
Deacon         
Dean, academic            
Dean, clergy            
Deceased Persons        
Delegate, U.S., State
            

Dentist             
Deputy Chief of Mission      
Deputy Marshal          
Designate, Elect,
    Pro Tempore      
Diplomats      

District Attorney           
Doctor of Dentistry           
Doctor of Medicine              
Doctor of
   Veterinary Medicine          
Doctor of Osteopathy            
Doctor, Other Disciplines     
Doctorate        
Doctorate, honorary      

Earl            
Elect, Designate
  
Pro Tempore      
Eminence     
Etiquette    
Excellency           

Fiancee      
First, Second,
   Third, etc.        
First Lady, Spouse
   of the President of
   the United States 
First Lady, Member
    of Her   
    White House Staff      
First Lady, Spouse
   of a Governor
   or Lt. Gov.    
First Lieutenant
   
Flag Protocol     
Former Officials    
Freeholder       

Geshe
General
    USA, USAF, USMC
Girl
Governor, Lieutenant 
Governor, Lt., Spouse   

Governor, Tribal Council          
Governor, U.S. State       
Governor, Former    
Governor
    Spouse of     
Governor's Staff,
    Member of      
Governors, Board of 

Honorable, The          
Honorary degrees    
Honourable, The
       

Indian Chief         
Inspector General    
Introductions       
Invitations
  
   Writing &  
   Addressing  
Invitations
   
Military:
    Writing &
    Addressing

Judge, former     
Judge of US City or

        US Count     
Judge, US Federal            
Junior, Senior,
    I, II, III, etc.       
Justice, Associate
     Federal
     Supreme Court
Justice, Associate
     State
     Supreme Court

King     
Knight      

Late, The
   (deceased persons)
       
Lawyer      
Lieutenant      
Lieutenant Colonel,     
   USA, USAF, USMC      
    
Lieutenant General,
   USA, USAF, USMC      
Lieutenant Governor         

Major
   USA, USAF, USMC  
Major General,
   USA, USAF, USMC   
Man, business
          
Man, social
         
Marquess or Marchioness
 
 
Married Women       
Marshal for a
   Judicial District, U.S. 
Mayor, U.S. City   
Mayor, Canadian City    
Mayor Pro Tempore
     
Mayor, Vice    
Medic      
Minister,
   Protestant Clergy       
Miss      
Monk,
   Christian Orthodox     
Monsignor       
Most Reverend, The        
Mother Superior
    
Mr. (Social)      
Mr. (Business)      
Mrs.      
Mr. & Mrs. / Couples   

Ms.      

Name Tags     
Nobility, British
       
Nobility, Other     
Nun, Catholic
  
Nun, Orthodox
Nurse        

Officer, Police

Pastor, Christian Clergy  
Patriarch,
   Christian Orthodox  
Patriarch,
   Ecumenical Patriarch
   of Constantinople  
People with Two Titles      
Permanent
     Representative        
Petty Officer
      
Physician
        
PhD     
Place Cards            
Police Chief
Police Officer                     
Pope, Catholic
  
Pope, Coptic
      
Postmaster General         
Post-Nominal
    Abbreviations    
Presbyter, Orthodox
   
President, corporate
President of
    College or University         
President of a
    US State Assembly 
President (current)
   of the U.S.A.          
President (former)
   of the U.S.A.     
     
President of the
    U.S.A., spouse of  
President-elect
    of the U.S.   
Priest,
    Catholic          
Priest,
    Christian Orthodox 
Prime Minister        
Professionals
   & Academics         
Professor
     
Pro Tempore,
   Elect, Designate    

Queen

Rabbi               
Ranger, Texas        
Representative,
   U.S., Federal           
Representative,
   U.S., State            
Resident
    Commissioner 
Retired Military
   1. Formula For
       How to Address     
   2. Q&A / Blog On
       Use of Rank by
       Retired Military    
 

   3. Q&A / Blog on
       How to Address
       Retired Military   
Reverend, The
      
Right Reverend, The         

School Board Member      
Second
Lieutenant        
Secretary,
   U.S. Department,
   Member of the Cabinet
Secretary
   of Defense, U.S.       
Secretary, Assistant       
Secretary General
   of the U.N.            
Senator, U.S., Federal       
Senator, U.S., State         
Senator, Canadian       
Senior, Junior,
     I, II, III, etc.         
Senior Judge 
      
Sergeant       
Sergeant at Arms
          
Sheriff       
Sister, Catholic       
Solicitor General      
Speaker of the U.S.
   House of
   Representatives.           
Specialist       
Spouse of the
    President of the U.S.       
Spouse of the
    Vice President
    of the U.S.           
Spouse of an
    Elected Official            
Surgeon General          

Texas Ranger        
Town Manager       
The Honorable     
Tribal Officials     
Two Titles,
    Person With

US Attorney        
US Federal Officials
     
US State Officials     
US Municipal Officials

Venerable, The        
Veteran (not Retired)         
Veterinarian
           
Very Reverend, The           
Vice Mayor       
Vice President
    of the U.S.
Spouse of the
    Vice President
   
of the U.S.
Vice President-elect
    of the U.S.      
 
Viscount and/or
   Viscountess        

Warrant Officer       
Widow
     
White House Staff    
Woman, business        
Woman, social        



Press Contact

For press information, interview, or fact check, send an e-mail to Robert Hickey. Or call The Protocol School of Washington®'s administrative office at 803-407-4177.

Video & Images

Photos of Gallery at Dubai, Abu Dhabi and Kansas City, MO. 

Panel Discussion   "The Art of Protocol" at Public Relations Society of America, Los Angeles Chapter. 8 minute edited video posted on Facebook.

Robert Hickey on CNN Newsroom with Tony Harris and on The Daily Show with Jon Stewart.

Robert Hickey on CNN International, Quest on Business

 


Quoted in The Media

Conde Nast Traveler / November 2010
Robert Hickey quoted in "Etiquette 101: What GivesSara Tucker, November 2010
"In our abundant culture, where everybody has so much, gifts don't mean as much as they do elsewhere in the world," says Robert Hickey, deputy director of the Protocol School of Washington. "A gift should be a distilled symbol of your relationship." In exchange for his gift to Brown, the president scored a first-edition biography of Winston Churchill in seven volumes, a framed commission for the H.M.S. Resolute, and a penholder. The penholder was only the latest artifact in a story going back to 1855, when the Resolute was rescued by an American whaler and later returned to England. A desk made from its timbers was presented to President Rutherford B. Hayes by Queen Victoria and has been used by American presidents ever since. The gift to Obama was crafted from the wood of the Resolute's sister ship, the Gannet, which once went on anti-slavery missions off Africa. The symbolism here is indeed exquisite. "It was only a penholder, but it was infused with meaning," says Hickey. "That was a brilliant gift."

"W" Magazine / June 2009
Robert Hickey interviewed in the Editor's Blog. "Five Minutes With A Master of Protocol" wmagazine.com, Haven Thompson, June 12, 2009
    
“The world may be flat, but people at the top of the pecking order don't think so. So if you're sitting next to a baroness, it would be fun to know what to call her. And wouldn't it be fun to have a good conversation with her?"
    Full Story as a PDF   

POLITICO / June 2009
Robert Hickey quoted in "What do you call a lawmaker, anyway?" Politico.com, Andie Coller, June 22, 2009
(TAGS: Names, Lawmakers, Respect, Name-Calling)
    
“It’s always the substance of the conversation that is the most important thing, but it is interesting how often these titles and things determine how the conversation goes,” says Hickey
    Full Story as a PDF   
    Barbara Boxer on YouTube

Press Releases

BRIDAL & WEDDING:
    How to Address Your VIP Wedding Guests? A New Resource Spells Out The Protocol Rules (April 2009) PDF

BUSINESS:
    Protocol Rules At The Top of The Pecking Order (April 2009) PDF

Robert Hickey
 
Author Photo: Brad Fowler
Book Photo: Marc Goodman


2011 National Conference for International Visitors
       Robert Hickey presented a 75-minute session Protocol for the Citizen Diplomat at the NCIV conference at the JW Marriott Hotel, Washington DC on February 19, 2011. Comments from participants included:
   * Excellent presentation, crisp and concise, worth repeating
   * Do this again please, He is amazing and the skills taught are so important
   * This presenter was superb. Clear, funny, educational
   * Great delivery + engaging + fun = very informative
   * The best and most useful session of the conference! Thank you so much.
   * Best session I have attended. Well delivered, fascinating and useful.
   * Very well presented. Educational session and fun. Great speaker.
   * This was an exceptional session.
   * Informative, well organized, even funny. This was a great session.

Teaching in Trindad & Tobago
   I taught a two-day
Protocol Master Class with my colleagues of The Protocol School of Washington® -- Left to right in the photo below, Jeane Anderson, Pamela Eyring, and Diane Brown -- October 25-26, 2010 in Port of Spain, Trinidad and Tobago under the sponsorship of the Trinidad and Tobago Hospitality & Tourism Institute. Attending were more than 125 students from the country, including two cabinet ministers who brought their staffs so all would be better prepared to present the best face to citizens and visitors.
         -- Robert




Teaching in Dubai, United Arab Emirates
   I was teaching an
International Protocol Manager Training with The Protocol School of Washington® June 28-July 1, 2010 in Dubai, United Arab Emirates in a training under the patronage of The Protocol Department of His Highness the Ruler of Dubai. There were students from the U.A.E. (Dubai, Abu Dhabi, Fujairah, and Sharjah), Oman, Qatar, Lebanon, and even one who came from the U.S.A.
    Below is a photo of me on the back terrace of the Emirates Palace Abu Dhabi (with the Persian Gulf in the background). It was about 110 degrees F and very humid, so I wasn't out there for long. 
    And also there's a photo of the International Protocol Manager class on the 124th floor observation deck of the Burj Khalifa, the tallest building in the world in Dubai, U.A.E. I'm the tallest person, back left, wearing the red tie.
         -- Robert




     Honor & Respect
The Official Guide
to Names, Titles, and Forms of Address

By Robert Hickey

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Book Photo: Marc Goodman